Thanks for bringing us together.

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I got a return wink/email on the 6th of July from my wink i had sent a few weeks before. He said he liked my comment on being a "Ms. Doubtfire and not a desperate housewife".

We communicated quite a bit every day, and into the night most nights. He was very shy at the beginning, but I told him that wouldn't last around me. I think he would agree to that now.

We talked on the phone, did a lot of text messaging and just felt like we needed to meet even though the distance between us was quite a bit more than I had originally wanted. It did interfere with us getting together very often, but we make the best of all the time we have together.

We had our first meet and greet on July 19, 2009.

We started our date with a knowing smile across the parking lot and a huge hug at the Harley shop in Lacey, WA , and then a motorcycle ride on his Harley. On our ride out of town through the beautiful Olympia area, he had his elbow resting on my left... Vollständige Geschichte lesen>>

I got a return wink/email on the 6th of July from my wink i had sent a few weeks before. He said he liked my comment on being a "Ms. Doubtfire and not a desperate housewife".

We communicated quite a bit every day, and into the night most nights. He was very shy at the beginning, but I told him that wouldn't last around me. I think he would agree to that now.

We talked on the phone, did a lot of text messaging and just felt like we needed to meet even though the distance between us was quite a bit more than I had originally wanted. It did interfere with us getting together very often, but we make the best of all the time we have together.

We had our first meet and greet on July 19, 2009.

We started our date with a knowing smile across the parking lot and a huge hug at the Harley shop in Lacey, WA , and then a motorcycle ride on his Harley. On our ride out of town through the beautiful Olympia area, he had his elbow resting on my left knee, and he just reached down and patted my shin, and a peace came over me that I could hardly describe, and I felt like he was the reason that I had finally came back to Oregon after being gone to Oklahoma for over 9 years. It was a glorious feeling, and he said he felt like I was an extension of him on the bike. He enjoyed the back and shoulder massages I was giving him too. It was a perfect way to start the relationship and the day.

We drove around Olympia sightseeing (lost LOL) for a while in my car, since I am from the Portland,OR area and had never been in the area before.

We ended up at the mall (finally), shopped a bit, talked non-stop, grabbed a late lunch and then went to see a movie in the mall.

We had a great day, and was going to end it with dinner at a restaurant but they had about a 45 minute wait. So we opted for the homemade chocolate chip cookies and ice cold milk I had brought with me, and ended our date 9 hours later enjoying them off the trunk of my car. He got to take the leftovers home with him.

We both felt like we had met the perfect person, and wondered where we had each been all our lives.

We have had a wonderful time getting to know each other, talking for hours, traveling together, camping, four wheeling, going to the beach, Central Oregon, seeing Mt. Hood and sharing all the ups and downs that normal life has to hold.

Neither one of us felt like we had to impress the other one, or be something we weren't. We have been able to be ourselves, and we love doing things together not just to make the other one happy or please them by our sacrifice.

We are both in our late 50's, it's still a learning process but we and both looking forward to "Happily ever after."



Not having to have the sex talk because of this site made getting together really easy. We still talked about it and the fears it holds being infected, but it was not an awkward situation like regular dating is.



My advice to everyone is to be open honest up front, then you don't have to apologize later or cause mistrust so early in the relationship. If they don't listen, care, and understand, then they aren't worth your time anyway. Take things slow, don't jump to conclusions, give the other person the benefit of the doubt and a second chance, and think outside of the box on how this person could fit into your life. They may not fit your profile exactly, but they may be just what you need.



Thanks to Positive singles for this portal of available people that have not given up on life and are not hiding in the corner thinking it is all over. It was a very Positive experience, and I will highly recommend it to any one I know that needs this kind of site.



I'll let you know if any marriage plans come up, and we will send pictures.

Thanks

56suebee

Thanks for being the reason we are together today!  (Dating)

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When S and I first met, I was staying with family in Michigan for a couple months and he lived in NC. The first night we met there was a great connection and we chatted online for hours. Then we talked almost everyday online or on the phone for a couple of weeks. He got really busy with work doing 12 hour shifts 5 days a week and we didn't talk as much, just an occassional text message.

We did talk about meeting when I got back to North Carolina. When I got back home (NC) I let him know that I would be in his area for memorial day weekend. I called him when I got into town to visit friends and we made plans to get together. S and I met at a restaurant/bar. We spent a few hours together and definitely had a connection. When we left for the night he told me he broke his cardinal rule and kissed me on the first "date." The next day we met again and walked around local gardens and went to lunch. I went back home that day (about 2 hours away) and we talked on the phone for a few we... Vollständige Geschichte lesen>>

When S and I first met, I was staying with family in Michigan for a couple months and he lived in NC. The first night we met there was a great connection and we chatted online for hours. Then we talked almost everyday online or on the phone for a couple of weeks. He got really busy with work doing 12 hour shifts 5 days a week and we didn't talk as much, just an occassional text message.

We did talk about meeting when I got back to North Carolina. When I got back home (NC) I let him know that I would be in his area for memorial day weekend. I called him when I got into town to visit friends and we made plans to get together. S and I met at a restaurant/bar. We spent a few hours together and definitely had a connection. When we left for the night he told me he broke his cardinal rule and kissed me on the first "date." The next day we met again and walked around local gardens and went to lunch. I went back home that day (about 2 hours away) and we talked on the phone for a few weeks until he got busy again and I started a new job.

We both knew the 2 hour distance was difficult and I think between the distance and us both being busy, we didn't put the effort in to make it work during the summer. I started seeing someone a few months later. We went most of the summer not talking much at all until S got a facebook and sent me a friend request and we sent a few messages back and forth just catching up. Finally, the week before Thanksgiving, I had just ended things with the guy I was seeing, and I was on facebook and S sent me a chat asking if I was seeing someone because it had been so long since we talked. I told S that I had been seeing someone, but we were done now and S told me he would be in my area for a week during Thanksgiving visiting his mom and asked if I wanted to get together. He also said if we didn't get together this time when we were 20 miles apart, we would never get together any other time. We made plans to meet for drinks and a movie the night before Thanksgiving. We talked on Thanksgiving before I had to work that night. The next night we met for dinner and he came over to my place and we watched a movie. The following day we spent together as well. From there on out we talked every day and I went to his house to stay with him the following weekend. S came to see me the weekend after that, met my friends and they all loved him! He stayed with his mom for a few nights while I had to work and I went to his Mom's to meet her. He then extended his stay with me for the rest of week, went home for a few days and was back in my area for the holidays. My Mom came into town from Michigan and met S and one day he and his Mom came over and our Mom's met! We have spent time together almost every week despite our 2 hour distance between us. We have talked about me moving there in a few months. Things have be going exceptionally well and I think we both feel great about this relationship! No talks of marriage yet, but his mother has told me on several occassions that this is the first time she has ever heard her son discuss having children someday. She said he never even brought the topic up before.

Everyone is cheering for us and both of our families have mentioned howhappy we both seem and that there is a "spark" about us. We both have discussed how different things feel with each other than either of us have felt in past relationships. I feel like I have known him a lifetime! The timing of our relationship just makes me feel like things were meant to be. Everything just fell into place this time around with us meeting. Who could have thought that something so positive came from such an awful event in either of our lives! It may have taken us a few months before meeting, about another 6 months before meeting again, but the second time around for us was a charm! Thanks for being the reason we are together today!